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1-to-1 Mentorship

Someone who’s sat at rock bottom and stayed there long enough to know how dark it gets

A place to speak the things you’ve been silencing - grief, anger, shame, numbness...all of it

Guidance that comes from lived pain, not a textbook

Tools for the days when getting dressed feels like a win

The kind of presence that says: you don’t have to earn this support

I don’t do hype. I don’t do “mindset shifts” wrapped in pastel quotes. I’ve wanted to disappear. I’ve laid in bed wondering what the point of any of it was. I’ve lost everything I thought made me lovable or valuable - my body, my energy, my sense of self. And I’m still here. Still showing up. Still finding ways to make space for hope, even when it hurts like hell. That’s what I bring into this space. Not polished answers. Not pep talks. Just truth, and the kind of support I wish someone had given me when I was barely holding on.


You don’t want a plan. You want a pause. You want someone who won’t flinch when you tell the truth. You want to remember who you are underneath the performing, the surviving, the pretending-to-be-okay. We won’t try to “fix” you. But we will sit with what’s real. And we’ll look at what’s next - slowly, gently, with as much grit as grace.

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If you’re a Glow member, remember to use your 50% discount code.
No pressure to show up with answers. Just come as you are.
And if you’re not sure this is the right time? You can wait. You’ll know.

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“Talking to Sandie was truly eye-opening and transformative. She made me feel seen, heard, and deeply understood. Sandie is, without a doubt, the most incredible spiritual guide one could ask for. Every conversation with them brought clarity, lightness, and a profound sense of peace. Connecting with them has genuinely changed my life for the better. I’m already looking forward to our next conversation.” 

AB - Mentee
 
  • What actually happens in a session?
    We talk. You bring whatever’s on your mind — the mess, the numbness, the questions you don’t know how to ask yet. I listen. We slow things down. Sometimes I’ll offer reflection, sometimes a tool or prompt, but mostly, I’m here to hold space while you figure out what’s true for you.
  • Do I have to be clear on what I want to work on?
    Not at all. Most people come in feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure. You don’t need a plan — just a pulse. If all you know is that something doesn’t feel right, we can start from there.
  • Is this like therapy?
    No. I’m not a therapist. This is mentoring — peer support rooted in lived experience, not clinical training. I won’t diagnose or analyse you. What I offer is presence, perspective, and support from someone who’s walked through the fire and doesn’t expect you to pretend it’s warm.
  • What if I get emotional or can’t talk?
    That’s okay. Honestly, that’s welcome. You don’t need to hold it together here. Silence, tears, tangents, breakdowns — all part of the process. We go at your pace, in your language.
  • What if I can’t afford it right now?
    If money’s a barrier, I get it. I offer occasional pay-what-you-can sessions when capacity allows, and Glow members get 50% off. If this support is what you need, but access feels out of reach, email me. No promises — but no judgement either.
  • Do I have to be disabled, queer, or neurodivergent to book?
    Not at all — but if you are, know that this space is built with you in mind. I work best with people who’ve been overlooked, pushed out, or told to shrink. If you know what it means to feel ‘too much’ or ‘not enough,’ you’re in the right place.
  • What format are the sessions — and do I have to be on camera?
    Sessions are usually via video call — but that doesn’t mean you have to be on camera. You’re welcome to keep it audio-only if that feels easier. And if you prefer to write rather than speak, we can do the session via text. This space is for you, and we’ll shape it in a way that feels safe and accessible. No pressure, no performance.

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